It’s not a matter of belittle. When we say out loud that you’re neither so nor so small, we don’t devalue the other person, we’re talking about a game of forces where someone loses.
To love is to build a meaningful and rewarding relationship where every effort is rewarded, we give and receive what we deserve, and it is something that is done with freedom and authenticity.
- At a time when one of us exercises this power where everything has to revolve around its needs.
- Needs arise.
- You should never settle for little.
- Because love is not measured in quantity.
- But in happiness and correspondence.
There are those who frequently express to their partner the idea that “he deserves everything. “And it will certainly be so, for to love is to desire all that is best for this being who lives in our hearts. We’d give everything for our beloved.
However, it is neither appropriate nor healthy to cling emotionally to the other person to the point where your own integrity fades. Nobody’s in favor of that, to the point where you have so few.
We invite you to think about it
Many times in our affective relationships we tend to fall into these ideas of all or nothing, they are unions based on absolute dedication, where personal interests do not fit, a love that does not want half inks and that is only done with extremes. .
Life is not all or nothing, like affective relationships, there are adequate spaces to respect and differences to accept, complicity is a daily covenant without ultimatums, it is a love that respects and accepts away from the games of power
Don’t settle for a little. There’s no way to love or love “today I love you, but tomorrow I’ll think. “Living in emotional uncertainty creates suffering. And living in a relationship where one is above the other creates heart deficiencies.
There would be the authentic essence, the most complete and healthy truth. I want to be to you what you are to me. And in fact, we know that sometimes it’s very difficult, that we all want.
I want a love based on reciprocity, in which nothing is small. Where my dedication and affection are on top, where my presence is recognized, my voice is heard and my person as loved as yours is in my heart.
It is possible that all these concepts seem complicated to carry out and that you see them more as a wish than as a reality, we invite you to reflect on these ideas:
You deserve a mature and conscious love based on daily effort and weaving with care that knows the details, which knows reciprocity.
Courtesy image: Claudia Tremblay