We continue to live machismo and prejudice very close to us, without being able to see the light of overcoming, and that leads us to categorize the people around us, while still listening to them and respecting their views. this always happens is sexuality, especially with regard to women. And here’s my story on this subject.
“Your body is a temple of nature and the divine spirit. Keep it sane; Study it, grant your rights. “
? Henry F. Amiel?
I never gave much importance to my sex life during the first sexual relationship and its relevance, she started without a bad experience and, fortunately, with pleasant surprises, learns new sensations, discovers everything that can be shared with another human being attached to you, and simply enjoys the moment with good quiet music.
I never wondered too much if it was the right time or not, I want to think that this is where the magic of my first time resides and his positive experience, happened with nothing else. It was very simple, but I felt that my entourage did not perceive it that way, but as something full of prejudices and taboos.
My first contacts with sexuality were free, without further ado. There’s something negative about sex, the union of two people?
I grew up and that part of my life went on without being too important to me, maybe because he hasn’t benefited from a stable partner yet, this made me enjoy it without too many headaches and emotional burdens. and it was comfortable free.
My different and authentic couples started arriving easily and without complications. And, of course, if you ask me if I’ve taken care of each of them, I’ll say yes. It’s also true that they were all full of love, honey. and without accident. Around me, the people who loved me saw me as a liberal person, or rather a libertine.
They thought that for me sex was an act of machine and that I had no feeling, they invited me to be a little more responsible for my actions, filling me with all their prejudices.
With regard to this step, I will be honest with you: I have done as my heart told me, if I felt comfortable and free, I would enjoy it. Without many thoughts and always with the responsibility of my body and me, obviously.
I enjoyed the moment, me and my partner, I didn’t think too much
Life had given me a precious gift: to feel the union of the person who wanted to be by my side at that time and to share love.
An intimate love where you trust the human being you want to participate in during this time, this moment Has a question arisen?Why betray the trust of someone who has seen me completely exposed?Naked? I immediately felt that not everyone was thinking about it.
And after many years, accepting me and differentiating myself from my surroundings, I realized that living the world and life with an open mind about my sexuality made me think it was “easy. “My friends and people I trust have told me that knowing makes me more desirable.
I enjoyed this new category and experience in which I accidentally became involved, but before long I felt uncomfortable with the prejudices of those who did not understand me; those who did not stop to analyze with freedom and some human empathy.
For my part, I tried to understand people who dared not say that they wanted to take advantage of what I was doing, sexual union, in my experiences there has never been disrespect, strange situations, harm or abuse, ever. He just came to an agreement to live the moment and the union, the fun.
I went and am a person with a good education and a good living experience. Good person, with a heart full of unconditional love and eager to enjoy life. Respectful and always human.
The problem? Those are all my gifts, look at someone calmly
I have come to the conclusion that people think and talk too much, and worst of all, without knowledge or truth. I changed, fed up with comments and prejudices, until I met the man of my life, I was honest and told him everything, and without being like me, one more human being, he understood me.
Then he told me that acting or being like that didn’t make me an easy person, quite the opposite. I realized in myself that I had my sex life under control and that I knew myself, I knew what my limits were and, as a result, I could enjoy it with freedom and balance.
Then he gave me permission to be myself: I continued to enjoy my sexuality and explore my body, this time with someone who loved me, I did what my heart said and closed the prejudices learning to respect myself, I understand that no one has the right to catalog someone or ask them who you are.
Each of us is responsible for how we want to live. We own our emotions and our bodies. Don’t waste your time dancing to the sounds of those who are simply full of doubt and fear. They’re the ones who will always have a “Did I tell you?”What’s these people’s final message?That we are not worthy of ourselves. I know you.
“A woman enjoys the certainty of caressing a body whose secrets she knows and whose preferences are suggested by herself. “
? Colette?