Sometimes we tend to fall into the false belief that it is necessary to accumulate many achievements in life, human beings look at the day-to-day short- and long-term goals, which is certainly very good, it is also very positive to wake up in the morning with motivation and imagination.
We like to fulfill goals and demonstrate what we are able to do: get a job, a promotion, buy a house, a car, conquer the woman or man of your dreams. We build and build our lives on the basis of the small and the big. But does everything we achieve really define us throughout our lives?
- Many of us will say yes.
- However.
- There is even better value than the ability to achieve new achievements.
- Guess what it is? It’s the ability to win.
- What we assume.
- However painful.
- And which.
- In the end.
- We have managed to overcome.
- Making us stronger.
Let’s talk about it today, let’s understand this interesting and fundamental skill a little better.
First let’s differentiate the ability to achieve and overcome personally. To better understand, we define through simple statements what usually builds the will to achieve it, which is often so appreciated every day in this competitive society in which we live.
? The ability to achieve is effort and what a person is willing to invest to achieve a goal.
? It is, in general, a personality that has very clear its desires and needs, and that fights for them, maintaining high expectations of realization.
? It requires dedication and tenacity
? They set their daily lives with goals to achieve. This is where a great personal request is involved.
? People with a great ability to succeed tend to succeed professionally.
They are undoubtedly very positive dimensions, because they enhance our self-esteem and significantly reinforce our perception of ourselves, so could we say that it is precisely our capacity to achieve that best defines us as people?Very rewarding?
It is often said that the true strength, the best courage of a person, is his ability to overcome adversity, and more than that, to overcome his own fears, his own limits, which only we know. This personal effort is sometimes much more satisfying than achieving a goal.
“You’re not what you do, you’re what you got over. ” And now tell me, what have you overcome in your life?We are sure that you have overcome many things, that you have faced countless difficulties, difficulties that define you as you are, as you look in front of the mirror, with all the inner scars that only you can see. What dimensions tend to build that instinctive capacity that many of us have to overcome these?Walls? Daily life, which often gives us life:
1. Positive attitude
Having a positive attitude is critical to overcoming difficulties. Maintaining integrity and hope gives us the strength to be courageous; trust each other.
2. Accept it
These gaps, threats, problems or losses that sometimes we have to fight, are enemies that we must face, but never avoid them, unite your strengths, trust and face, never escape and never run from problems
3. Resilience
We have talked about resilience on several occasions in our texts, so much so that we already know how to apply it in the day to day, however traumatic, complicated or devastating the event was, of each difficult condition we can get an apprenticeship. and leave the process strengthened. There is nothing more rewarding than overcoming any stressful or threatening situation with resilience.
4. Self-esteem
How would we define self-esteem in a simple and practical way?Self-esteem is a scale where trust, self-resuspet, the desire to live and be happy with what we have and deserve are high.
I’m sure you agree
Positive emotions make us flourish, while keeping us in our reality through empathy, love, balance, well-being and emotional intelligence.
All these dimensions are seeds with which we must germinate our capacity to overcome, one of the most rewarding dimensions of the human being Put them into practice!