It has always been easier to create expectations than to meet them, so we are more accustomed to the remaining unresolved probabilities than to certainties, after all, what happens is that we tend to forget that we are what we do. , not what we say we’re going to do: you’re what you do, and the intentions are just decorative.
An old saying goes, “You can’t cross the bridge until you’ve reached it. “
- By acting.
- You leave a kind of footprint around you that can reach others or have an impact on your near future: a reaction or attitude to a situation can make a difference.
- That is.
- The good heart you have must be in tune with your movements and thoughts: what you say vehicle.
- But what you do feels.
We love expectations and, in some way, we inspire to achieve what we want: they are built as impulses and our dreams of continuing to grow or make others happy are fulfilled, in this way expectations become the starting point of authenticity because they emerge from the depths of each one, but also from fragility and frustration.
“Expectations are like fine porcelain. The more you hold on to it, the more likely it is to break. -Brandon Sanderson-
Without realizing it, many of our daily thoughts are expectations or dreams that feed on the promises of others or very personal hopes placed on them:?He promised we’d go out and celebrate and now he can’t ?,?Sure I do very well in this interview, am I super prepared ?, do you expect to win the CD that I showed on your birthday, but forgot to buy it ?, etc. These could be common examples of what we’re saying.
In cases where promises and expectations are not accompanied by the effort to make them come true, they become useless, because they only generate disappointment, sadness or irritation: goals are not absolute truths and the mistake is to act as if they were. In this sense, a fact can only be taken without fear of being broken when it has already been fully fulfilled.
This is not to say that it does not matter what we have inside, but that attitudes inform us regardless of what we want to believe in words.
You are what you do because if your heart is good, your relationships will see it in every detail, on the contrary, if the promises and expectations you generate are bad, they cannot hide them.
In the end, we all have three personalities: who we are, what we think we are, and what others think we are; we have to try to make all three live in harmony. If we say we’re going to do a certain thing and we don’t, what happens is that all three personalities collide and negative emotions arise.
Good intentions are fundamental, because without them there would be no purpose either, it is good to have the objective of constantly surpassing us, as in the workplace, where the goals we set ourselves are so important.
Are attitudes that serve a purpose useful or good and succeed?-Maim-nides-
However, the goal of achieving a goal does not necessarily lead to it. Think: How many of your New Year’s purposes have you done in recent months?Many probably felt comfortable. Having positive goals gives us vitality and adrenaline, but you have to accompany them with action, movement.