Yes, as obvious as it may seem, your life depends on you and no one else. The phrase itself may seem redundant, but it is a reality that we must enjoy and appreciate again. That’s a reality we need to frame. Just as we frame the photographs we care about, it is essential to pay attention to this statement and not leave it in the background.
He thinks the choices we make shape our lives. Both those we take of our own free will and those we take “under the influence of others”. Every decision is kept in our life backpack. Each decision has a weight, more or less light, but a weight with which to walk. A weight that defines and shapes our lives.
- We often find ourselves wanting to make a decision that others do not approve of.
- Decisions that are often dismissed as innocent or thoughtless?Or they’re just decisions that others can’t understand.
- People who love us may fear the consequences of these decisions in our lives and for our future.
However, if you’ve taken the time to think about it, if you feel there are changes you need to make (drastic or less drastic, more or less reality-based), don’t do it for what others can do. say or the way you can?worry?the people who love you are keeping your freedom from the right place.
Life, after all, is the one who lives it, of course there are decisions that need to be thought through to know in what context we make them, sometimes we make decisions when we are very angry or very euphoric, when it would be better to think about it when we are in a calmer state to identify our true desires.
But this task is ours. It belongs to us. Thinking about our decisions, the changes we want in our life and our desires is totally legitimate if we feel it as such. Can’t we be manipulated by this? that others have before the decisions we want to make.
Will the people who love us understand that designing our way is their own task, with our values and emotions, with our thoughts and with our experiences?With our own original vision of life. We must ask ourselves if we want the life others want for us, that would be contrary to our nature. We would be doomed to a constant and deaf feeling of unhappiness and inadequacy.
We’d end up blaming others for our lack of courage and courage It was your fault!Did you tell me not to do that? No one else is responsible for our lives. Blaming the other means avoiding realizing that life is ours and that we are responsible for every decision we make.
Others don’t make decisions for us. We take them ourselves. With fear or cowardice, with maturity or responsibility, with the child in us?
All these contexts are lawful and there are essential margins of error. How boring would life be if we thought perfectly?And well framed in the ideal model of life that we often feel compelled to realize!
You choose your life, your nuances and your colors, can you be wrong?Can you make bad decisions? Of course! We will make mistakes several times, but this will never mean a mistake in itself, precisely because learning comes from the “bad” and good choices we make in our lives.
In fact, think: what experiences have you had that have made you mature deeply and know what you want in your life and what you don’t want?Think about it and live your life the way you want to build it. you need it and don’t overdo it by disappointing the people who love you. They will understand that only you can decide what you want and what you don’t want in your life and only you can see it.
Well done on this road!