You’ve never seen me naked, you’ve never heard of my dreams. My dreams consumed by the passage of time waited thinking that we would see each other again. Now I realized that this waiting was a waste of time with a mind full of shrews and chimeras. If a person is in love enough, there is nothing that needs to change, only increase the desire to be together and face the difficulties that prevent it.
Besides, I realize that our idealized intimate encounters were nothing more than the cloud of dust that distracts you from the truth about the person you’re embracing. To undress in front of someone is to show that you are betting to the end, despite the pitfalls and tragedies of the road. Now I realize that my nudity only showed you my availability, but you never realized the birth behind it.
- Being always naked.
- What crosses our mind is true intimacy.
- Which at times remains intransigent and inert.
- Mixed with caresses and passion.
- A silent intimacy because it believes that it can impede the development of passion.
Conversations about the future and what is expected are avoided by the fact that “All words are unnecessary when giving a real hug”. However, how can we believe in this embrace language if for someone it is a moment and for the other it is eternity that wants to be shared?. When two souls are at peace, silence must not be declared war. It’s good to talk about fears, expectations, feelings.
Because how do you normally evolve a relationship without knowing what’s going on with the other side’s dreams, their ideas about life, their way of being happy as a person, how do you turn a blind eye to such a strong feeling within a person?
Anyone who gives himself to another without thinking of receiving anything in return, nothing more than what derives from the same quality of intimacy, however, is expected without asking that after kisses, hugs and passions will come out what exists in us. hiding what you feel is not free love, but prisoner love.
Romantic love cannot be enjoyed by ignoring the illusions and images that arise from it, sometimes ignored for fear of being wounded, by a postponement of the unconscious or to avoid the misunderstanding of commitment, which is not the fulfillment of a sentence. , but get rid of it when you really experience what it feels like.
We may be willing to wait for fear to subside, but we can wait and we will never know what we really are. This may be the risk you don’t want to take, but if you avoid it, you’ll never know you could. get into each other’s dreams, rather than their nudity.
There is no worse nostalgia than missing what never existed, and there is no worse certainty than knowing that something good is lost forever. They say open endings and unfinished stories are more charming, that what is interrupted is always best remembered, the Zeigarnik effect. that psychology describes in his studies of memory.
However, what applies to memory is not desire or repentance, interrupting what one wants and loves is a lament that will never be heroically remembered, but reveals the cowardice that existed at that time. of a love that forgetfulness will entail.